anxiety

ashleyp0420

Ok, so I'm about 6 weeks away from my wedding.  Everything is paid for (minus the limo and marriage license) décor is completed, dress is currently in alterations, and everything is pretty much taken care of...And I have anxiety lol.

I'm not sure if it's because I feel like I've missed something or because I've run out of things to keep me busy and now have too much time to think but it's got me having nightmares, second guessing my choices and hoping everything goes ok (planning a destination wedding from Canada in Florida.) 

I'm sure your all probably shaking your fists at your computer screen going OMG she is complaining about being able to relax before her wedding?!?  But I don't want to relax I want to make sure everything is done right the first time and that we have an awesome time.  I only plan on doing this once and of course 100% know it will not be perfect but I want to make sure that everything possible is as close as it can get.

Below is a list of things I still need to accomplish.  If you feel I have left something out please let me know!!!!

- print everything for reception and ceremony

- print final conformations from all vendors

- confirm rehearsal with rev and venue

- pack décor in carry on for MOH to take on the plane

- Email DJ father daughter dance

- Teach dad the dance

- obtain marriage licence in Florida

 

I feel like I'm almost too organized and have missed something...Please help!

 

TiffanyT816

I have everything paid for and pretty much finished yet, I still am having anxiety. I think it's just going to be here until the wedding. I'm trying to take one day at a time and stay focused, way easier said than done. At this point I'm living in the gym trying to keep the stress at bay.

Your list looks fine to me.

ashleyp0420

Thanks Tiffany!  I have my second dress fitting today which I'm very nervous about, hopefully that goes well.

 

I think because I'm in limbo waiting on a few thing too s that doesn't help!

 

hockeywife10

We have everything, except for things that need paid at the end, and funds are running low. Besides that, we have had alot of unnecessary drama. My stomach is upset EVERY day! I never thought I'd say it, but FI and I both can't wait till its all over, or at least till its 3:59 (our wedding is at 4:00) on the day of!

ashleyp0420

My FI is so relaxed it hurts my head!  Meanwhile I feel like I want to scratch my eyes out lol.

I know what you mean on the drama end too, that sure doesn't help anyone.

Jessica41381

I see all the stress and anxiety on here and when I think of myself I have no stress or anxiety. I feel completely laid back and now I wonder if its just going to hit me out of the blue one day soon.

ashleyp0420

I'm sure there are a lot of women here who wish they had that!  and I hope it doesn't hit you!! 

Jessica41381

ashleyp0420 said:

I'm sure there are a lot of women here who wish they had that!  and I hope it doesn't hit you!! 

Me too! I think it helped that we have everything done and paid off, invites sent out months ago and RSVP'S have been back so I didn't have the stress of seeing who was coming or not coming this close to the wedding. But I'm sure something will come up I just hope it's nothing major!

ashleyp0420

Your so calm, I envy you!  I'm pretty much done everything but can't seem to shake the feeling 've missed something.

Jessica41381

@ashleyp0420, I'm sure my days are numbered lol.. 23 days left so It will either be anxiety or pure excited(which I have currently). I think as it gets closer I'm going to be going over things a million anyone times to make sure I'm not forgetting anything!

ashleyp0420

Starting to feel much better   had my semi-final dress apt yesterday and was extremely happy with the results!

Just waiting for my printing to come back now and we will be all good!!!

Jessica41381

@ashlepp0420, I'm glad to hear your feeling better!!

jenmags

I had major anxiety last night!

 

I fit into my dress today and picked it up so thats good!  I have too much to get done still. I have to ship a bunch of boxes to my location. 

Home reception is this Saturday so that's gone. Eeek!

 

ashleyp0420

@Jenmags, glad your dress fit!  I still have to go back one more time on Aug 12 and that will be my final apt before we jet off to Florida on Aug 20.

get yourself a checklist going, that really helped me