Last night I ran into my well Stepbrother. (He is visiting his dad)
After we said hello and all that. He said that his daughter (he has 3 kids one is a girl) is really looking forward to being a bridesmaid and that all of them were looking forward to the wedding.
I think I must have looked really shocked because he went on to say that he was sorry and that my mother had told them all about the wedding ( she doesnt know anything I have told her nothing about the wedding at all) and that when she told them I was planing on asking his daughter to be a BM. She overheard and so has got really excited. But he was sorry if it spoilt me asking her or sending them their invite.
Tbh I was so much put on the back foot and just said that I needed to get home.
I didn't really know what to say.
I have a difficult relationship with my mother and I wasn't even sure that she (and so by extension my current step father) would be invited to the wedding.
We weren't going to invite my step brother or his family to the wedding. We have met about 5 times in all.
What am I meant to do?
Because I can't work out what to do. About my mother, my step brother, his family and specifically his daughter.