My parents are pushing for me to do the dollar dance. Which I won't, for obvious reasons. It's been a family tradition for a long time now. I personally don't get offended when other people do this, but it's just not my style, and I don't want to ask guests for money.
Can I just set up a station to fill out well wishes, and they can give me those during the apron dance? Instead of putting well wishes in a box or on a tree, and instead of paying money to dance with me? I know the alternative is to just not do it at all, but my parents would be really disappointed. So I'm just trying to compromise.