I know the protocol for this- waiting a week, calling around, giving a deadline, etc. But can I just say how shocked I am by the sheer number
of people who did not RSVP?
Our RSVP date was Friday, the 12th. By Tuesday, we were still missing 80 people! Eighty out of 300 which is very close to a third!! We've found a few more people (my family I wasn't worried about extending a whole lot more days- I just need to know what their entree selection is), but we still have about 45 to go. NUTS!!
I will be returning RSVPs for every wedding I'm invited to from here on out AT LEAST a week before the deadline. This is so frustrating!