Bridal Party Table & significant others

jennother · July 2013

My question is about our table. I don't want a sweetheart table. Our bridal party is small, all total it is 8 including MOH and BM. 2 on each side have a significant other. Should we sit their significant others at our bridal party table?

manateehugger · July 2013

jennother said:

My question is about our table. I don't want a sweetheart table. Our bridal party is small, all total it is 8 including MOH and BM. 2 on each side have a significant other. Should we sit their significant others at our bridal party table?

Yes. Every single guest at your wedding - including your wedding party - should be seated with their SO or date. No exceptions.

On a day celebrating your relationship, respect others' relationships as well.

onelovelywedding · July 2013

If you are happy with that, I don't see why not. If there is plenty of room and you and your future husband are ok with it - I see no problem at all!

NYCMercedes · July 2013

Yes, you should sit WP spouses and SO's with the WP.

[Deleted User] · July 2013

Another option is, if you don't want a sweetheart table, you could seat your families with you and have your BP sit with their dates at other tables.

JoanE2012 · July 2013

jennother said:

My question is about our table. I don't want a sweetheart table. Our bridal party is small, all total it is 8 including MOH and BM. 2 on each side have a significant other. Should we sit their significant others at our bridal party table?

That is definitely acceptable. You can also seat them at other tables if you want a sweetheart table. What is NOT good is to separate the BP from their significant others. I attended a wedding years ago and my DH was in the wedding party. He sat at the head table with the rest of the wedding party and I was stuck at a random table with people I didn't know. It really sucked.