Mobile: Intro and Indecisive Bride
Hello ladies! My name is Prim and I'm a MoH for my BFF's wedding in 2014 or 2015. She just got engaged (last week). I am very excited for her and love helping her plan her wedding. My only issue is that right now she seems to be really really indecisive. She's been planning her wedding since she was 12! I'm not joking. She is one of those girls that creates scrapbooks and stuff of how she wants things to look and has done so for years. So, now that she is actually engaged it seems that all of it has gone out the window? I don't really care, but it makes me nervous when it comes time to order MoH dress, ring bearer and flower girl (my kids) outfits.
I will gladly do whatever she wants as far as style, color and really even price point isn't an issue. I just hope she can make up her mind by then. The same is true for a date and a venue. She seemed set on a place, and date before she got engaged. Now she's changed her mind and can't figure out where she wants to get married. She's been aiming to get married for the last three boyfriends now. Like, on a mission yo. So, every time those relationships went boom she will go to town planning her dream wedding. Its entertaining (who doesn't like to fart around on Pinterest with pretty ideas?), but now that she is actually engaged I hope this flip flopping can be tamed.
Is this a normal part of getting married? I was pretty fixed in my preferences from the get go. I knew what I wanted and did that. Then again I dated and was engaged for a long time. Is it just the elation of getting engaged and she is enjoying the glow? Anyone else deal with a bride that is all over the place?
I am trying to be supportive, but she also wants to be pregnant soon (like second trimester at the wedding date) so that throws another layer of complications into it. I've gently advised her to take one big life adjustment at a time. You know, planning a wedding isn't something that is exactly easy etc. However, she is bound and determined to have all of this happen at once. So, I am just slapping on my happy face and going for the ride.
Who else has a sort of spastic bride that you love, but frustrates you a little?