No date set yet, my first his second. I am not one for all the glitz and glam of a regular wedding. Likely it will be a JOP ceremony and then a nice dinner and cake at a favorite restaurant for our families. I am stumped as to where to have the ceremony as i think having it at the restaurant is tacky. Any suggestions...I am thinking an October wedding. Going traditional w/ flowers and cake but nothing else really. Thanks in advance!