It's very close to our wedding date and my future MIL emailed me out of nowhere saying she wanted to pay for the bridal party/parent's flowers. This was very nice. My parents and I had already picked out the flowers and paid the deposit but not the full amount yet. She asked for the phone number of the flower place to call and give them some money. Once she did that she emailed me and said that she discussed the flowers with the florist (when she called to pay) and had made some changes to the flowers that she didn't like. For example, she change her flower and made it a wristlet, not a pin on. Now she will be the only one with a different flower than everyone else and it might look weird in pictures. Do you think it is wrong of her to do this? I worked really hard on a vision for my flowers and I would rather just pay for them myself and get what I want. When I gave her the phone number to call and pay and I didn't know she could change the flowers too.
Secondly, my future MIL contacted me many times to get the color of dress my mom was going to wear. She wanted pictures of her dress and the bridesmaids dresses so she could coordinate. All their dresses are blush which is my color scheme. After all of that and agreeing that she would get the same color once my mom got her dress, she ended up getting a completely different color. It is champagne and blue. Far from blush. Now she will be the only one in a different color dress too.
Any thoughts on what's going on here? Thanks.