I am trying to plan and American/Vietnamese Wedding. I am a white, american from Louisiana, a place with a lot of unique culture of its own. And my fiance is vietnamese. We will be having the traditional dam hoi in about a month, where i will wear an ao dai. However, I am struggling with how far to go with the wedding ceremony, reception and other events as far as participating in vietnamese tradition. I am having a hard time letting go of the fact that i may not be able to where my white wedding gown throughout the entire reception. Any thoughts, ideas?