My husband and I eloped for financial reasons for school. (Idk if its the same everywere but if you are under the age of 26 your parents have to fill out part of the fasfa for me to go to school. Even after I asked them to multiple times they didn't.) So we had been dating for four years and was already planning on getting married anyway and we eloped. We didn't tell anyone other than immediate family because we wanted a big wedding... well you know how secrets are if more than one person knows. It doesn't stay secret for long.
Anyway my mom is throwing me a wedding and we got to talking about the veil. She says that its tacky to wear a veil if you're already married but Ive ALWAYS dreamed of wearing a veil. I don't want to offend anyone, but I don't want to not have my dream just because I eloped