I have been to 4 weddings the past 2 months and have got a gift each time, but for one wedding everything on their registries was already purchase except huge ticket items (over $300), so i got a gift card which was also listed on the registries. About 1 month after the wedding, I was excited to see a thank you card in the mail but also expected it because my friend is on top of things. I opened it up and was shocked to see a typed generic letter from her... she said several times in the letter how she used our gift on her honeymoon. . . I am not mad at all about it, just puzzled if this is new thank you cards, more of a typed generic letter.... planning my wedding I guess I am just looking for some guidance.