I've posted a few times on the other boards, but I need some advice. My fiance and I are a hetero couple, but we really want to ask one of our great friends--who happens to be gay--to officiate our wedding. We're more than willing to pay any possible fees he might have in order to become ordained and will offer to pay him, but FI and I are nervous that it might be insensitive to ask him to help us get married when he is legally not allowed to in our state (which is completely stupid, but that's a different topic for another post).
Basically: how would you feel if we asked you to officiate our wedding? Honored or slighted?
I appreciate any and all feedback!