My wedding isn't until 2015 after I graduate from school. I have an idea who i would I like to have as my bridesmaids, but theres just one person Im not sure about. I have been friends with this girl since middle school, but I have practically known her since elementary school. I continued to be friends with her in high school and a little afterwards. She introduced me to my fiancé, but in the 3 and a half years I've been with my fiancé, her and I dont really talk much and have grown apart because of school. She's kind of unreliable at times, Im not sure if she'll be able to pay for a bridesmaid dress, shoes, jewelry, etc and I wont be able to help her out money wise. Im on the fence about her being my bridesmaid, but I feel like I have to because she introduced me to my fiancé and I have known her for a very long time. If I dont ask her to be a bridesmaid Im afraid she's gonna make a big deal about it. She's also mentioned to me that she wants to go wedding dress shopping with me, but Im not bringing my whole bridal party just my mom, grandma, sister, and maid of honor. What should I do and how should I tell her not everyone is coming wedding dress shopping???
Thank you,
Courtney