I chose my F sister, whom I've known for years, as my MOH. At the time, I thought it was a wonderful idea because we are close, she's been a BM before and she's super organized and has a lot of administrative experience.
As of late, she is not listening to my BM dress demands (same color as the other girls, same length as the other girls). She has said, on multiple occasions, that since she the MOH, she can do whatever she wants.
She recently asked what I am expecting for a bachelorette party. I told her I'd like a gathering with the BMs and a few close friends. Nothing crazy. Maybe some wine. Maybe do the classic "panty game". Nothing too risque though cause that's not my style. She informed me that she is not comfortable with "any of that". I was confused. She passed the bachelorette party planning AND my bridal shower onto our sister-in-law, who has been super helpful, but is not a BM.
I'm not an expert when it comes to wedding etiquette, so is this normal or weird? What should I do?