this dude actually wrote all this out, still didn't know what to do, and then mailed it with hopes that amy could help.
Dear Amy: My babe and I have lived together for almost two years. I know she has lots of baggage from her past, which includes filing her taxes and dividing stored assets from a previous 15-year relationship.
She tells me she will deal with things in due time. She likes to have a private life, so she doesn't let her old friends know we are living together, and she refuses to introduce me to certain male friends.
I feel I have been very patient up to this point, and yet my patience is starting to wear thin.
One male friend calls her every night at bedtime and every morning. She never takes this call when I am around, won't tell me who it is and insists he is just a friend. Recently I found out she is going over to see him when I am at work.
I understand having privacy when dating and casually seeing someone, but we live together. What advice do you have for me? — Suspicious