i have two nephew and a niece i helped raise ( total nephews are 9 plus 4 nieces ) and i want those three in my wedding .... well my Groom has a niece and a nephew sooo i thought two flower girls and possibly two ring barriers ... BUT the problem i have is my oldest nephew i raised is 9 ... now he could go on the grooms side OR since i was raised by my mother i thought i would have him walk me down the aisle and when asked who gives.... both him and my mother would say me or whatever ..... but some people think this is weird. is it weird to have two and two and have him walk me down?