Hello Knotties, I am in need of opinions please!!!! I recently lost my father and with that loss
we decided to do a memorial candle for all the immediate family members we have
lost. We will have pictures around the
candle and are going to light the candle before we do the dinner prayer and
have the dj ask for a moment of silence for those we have lost while we light
the candle. I was thinking of having the
dj announce the names of the people we would like to remember for example, for
our grandparents and their names, aunts and uncles and their names and my dad's
name. I thought it would be nice. My fiancée thinks it would be tacky and
uncomfortable for our guests. He also feels that it would take away from the happiness of our event. Neither
one of us have been to a wedding where anyone did a memorial candle so we are
both assuming on this topic. Anyone been
to a wedding where a memorial was done or had one done at their wedding? What did you feel about it, what did your
guest feel about it? Any advice/insight
anyone can give will be greatly appreciated.
This has been a hot topic and I want to ensure we are making the right
decision on this. Thank you!<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />