Backstory to this, my mother cheated on my father about 4 yrs ago and now they are divorced. As a result, needless to say, my family is strained. My father and mother are civil with each other but I still have anxiety about how my whole wedding day is going to pan out, having my mother in the same room as my dad and his family...(siblings, nieces, nephews, cousins etc)
Anyway, my mother is still dating the guy she cheated on my father with. My fiance and I have already decided that the boyfriend is not invited, out of respect to my father and the rest of my family, and also because I do not like the guy nor do I condone the situation that happened.
I know how my mother is (incredibly immature) and she is going to flip out when she finds out I'm not inviting her boyfriend. But I don't really care. It's my wedding, my fiance and I are paying for it, and she should have no say.
Has anyone else run into this situation and done the same thing? Or am I sounding like a brat? I'm just trying to make sure there is no drama at my wedding and I love my dad so much I wouldn't want anything to ruin his time or make him uncomfortable either.
Am I doing the right thing by not inviting the boyfriend?