Ugh...I'm trying to figure out who needs boutonnieres and corsages. Here's my list:
Men: Groom, the dads, ring bearer, honorary groomsmen (my 2 young nephews), groomsmen, ushers, my grandpa, my moms significant other, my great uncle who is like a grand parent, and the officiant who is a friend of ours.
Women: the moms, grandmas, my great aunt who is like a g-ma, my SIL-to be (she's from another country and is not used to American customs so she's not in the wedding), my stepmom, my step grandmother, 2 readers, my coordinator (who is a friend and worked free of charge), guest book attendant, and program attendants.
Gosh that seems like a ton! But I would feel awful if I'm leaving anyone out!! I'm doing my own so cost is minimal, it's just time consuming. Plus maybe I'm going overboard! The girls handing out programs and stuff for the guests to throw after the wedding are kids (age 10 and under) and there are 4 of them. Thinking they prob don't really need one but they are a part of the day so do I include them too?? I'm going crazy.