Hello all,
I love this board and have been stalking it for months and love the help that everyone gives. This board has been so helpful I would not have been able to plan my Vegas wedding without it!
I have been debating whether to post this on the board for a while now but I really need some advice so here goes....
My finance and I have always said since we met how much fun it would be to get married in LV. We are not your typical couple, we are not very traditional, we don't like fuss hence why we've always thought LV would be the perfect option to get married!
Whilst we don't want fuss we want a little bit of fuss.....we don't want our wedding day just to pass by unnoticed but we don't want a hugggge wedding with lots of people we don't even know who they are!
We have so far booked our ceremony and sent out save the dates. Our save the dates said our date for LV and a date for a party back in the UK. We currently live in Australia and have been here for 4 years now but we are holding our party back in the UK as that is where most of our friends and family are.
I have just recently found out that none of my family will be attending our wedding in LV (long story, families eh?!) so at this stage we just have my partners parents, his brother and uncle and two close friends. This makes our wedding party 7. We always knew we would never get big numbers for our wedding in LV due to cost, distance etc....and that is fine but now I'm a little upset I won't be having any family there. I'm worried as our numbers are so small the day won't be very good and the people who have spent money to be at our wedding will be disappointed. I'm worried there won't be much of an atmosphere. I feel like its not worth buying a wedding dress for such few people to see it. Do I sound like to being selfish? I'm really happy that the people who are coming are coming, it means a lot but I really feel upset that none of my close friends and family can't make it.
We are now in two minds about what to do? Do we go back to the UK and just have a 'normal' wedding where there will be more close friends and certain family members there for me or do we stick to our original plan of LV. We need to bear in mind as we do not currently live in the UK, due to local marriage laws we would need to be in the country 21 days before the wedding, this would mean we would not be able to have a honeymoon after the wedding due to unable to get long period of time off work. We had planned on doing a dream road trip across the US after our wedding in LV.
I've read lots of stories on this board of small weddings and people have loved it but I've never read much about weddings where no family members (on my side) won't be there. I'm worried in years to come that I'll look back on my wedding pictures and see that I had no one there for me but if I went back to the UK at least I would have siblings at my wedding and lots of my close friends I have grown up with.
Should I do what I've always wanted and go to LV or go back to the UK and get married?
Sorry for the long post, any advice/guidance would be greatly received. Maybe you may have been in a similar situation? I'm a bit lost
Dee. xx