Just venting

hheartsc22

 My wedding guest recently received invitations to my wedding,The other night I get a fb invite from the SO of one of my relatives to their baby shower that is the same day as my wedding. I know people will do what they are going to do and they can pick what ever date they want and no one will be as excited about my wedding I am but still...ugh!

VarunaTT

Do you think they can't do both or something?  Do the times conflict?  This might've been something that they didn't have a lot of control over.  I understand you're venting, but really, this isn't a BFD at all.

tawillers

If they've been invited to the wedding I feel like it's "crappy but what can you do?".  I'd be more pissed that they invited me to something on my own wedding day.

hmonkey

i love that it's a fb invite. time for some passive-aggressive status updates.  

hheartsc22

Sadly no because we live in different states and most of the family lives closer to them. The times do conflict as well. It is possible that some one else planned it or something. I'm def. not making an issue of it with them. On the up side, I'll save some on catering.

AuntFlo

Oh, a different state?  Yeah, sorry, you have nothing to be pissy about.

hheartsc22

Not pissy about it just taken by surprise and kind of bummed that some of the family I would have loved to have attend the wedding now will not be.

zsazsa-stl

Did this person receive one of your stds? And I'm assuming that your wedding date is several months away, what the heck at inviting people to a baby shower already?

VarunaTT

zsazsa-stl said:

Did this person receive one of your stds?

This is making me laugh and laugh.

mrsconn23

VarunaTT said:

zsazsa-stl said:

Did this person receive one of your stds?

This is making me laugh and laugh.

Me too! 

hheartsc22

Both a save the date and an invite. The wedding date is actually pretty soon.

hmonkey

why can't she just have her shower at your reception? i mean, it's already decorated and people will be there.

hheartsc22

hmonkey said:

why can't she just have her shower at your reception? i mean, it's already decorated and people will be there.

Lol!!l

SBmini

I would message her. Say thank you for the invite, but unfortunately you cannot attend because your wedding is that day. See what she says. She could just have pregnancy brain and didn't realize she scheduled it on the same day.

hheartsc22

I did send a reply wishing them the best at their shower and though I could not be there because of getting married that day but am planning to send a gift before the little munchkin arrives.

hheartsc22

You know how you will have those weeks as the date gets closer that are super stressful and little things that would normally not be a thing at all bother you a little because you're feeling more sensitive than usual? It was one of those kind of things.