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Why Are Most Of Ya'll So Negative!!!!

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Re: Why Are Most Of Ya'll So Negative!!!!


  • motoLyn said:
    You come in here and start spouting that crap, well all I have to say is this "Suck my....." how's that for fuckin rude?!

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  • Geez, someone got thrown off their broomstick today. I mean, if you post something this harsh, you will be called out on it. I must admit, I lurk on here.. a lot. By doing so I get information and advice from PP's on a lot of different topics, and also can give others advice in return. If someone gets extremely honest with me, I try to take it for what it is. I'd rather have upfront honesty then some one sugar coating poop for me. Get your stuff straight before spewing hate!

    On a side note, I as well have two cats, and no.. I am most certainly NOT lonely ;)
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  • This is exactly what i was talking about. Its okay for you to comment on other people discussion board, saying nasty/rude things but when I post a discussion asking why are 'most' of y'all so rude everybody is getting offended and saying how rude I am. Smh lol sad case!!!

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    Seriously - if you think we are so awful and can't understand the difference between giving honest (sometimes blunt advice) and creating a thread just to attack people then please just go.



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  • phiraphira Bahstin
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    Um, it's not like you said, "People have been rude to me." You said actual rude things. Like about how these married ladies should gtfo and how the rest of us are crazy lonely cat ladies. You're pretending that you didn't say anything overtly or objectively rude, which is pretty darn silly. I mean, we all see what you wrote and it's not something that can be passed off as NOT rude.
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  • I'm not pretending that i didn't say anything rude, because I know I did. The post was not for EVERYBODY who comes to theknot. It was for the people who constantly come to other people's post (Not Just Mine) and say mean/hurtful/rude things. I see that MOST of you all are missing that point! But of course people are still going to take whatever they want from the post and flip it around! I NEVER said the people who arent married are crazy with cats i said most/some of them are (PROBABLY). There is a difference between constructive criticisim and just being nasty/rude as hell. Like i said before it's all fine and dandy when some of y'all come to my post and tell me how dumb it is to start planning a wedding before im engaged, or how dumb it is to plan for a wedding thats not until 2016, its okay for some of y'all to do that right? But when I make a post asking why your being rude to me and other people, and start to say rude things back people start to feel some type of way. You want to be rude to me, I'm going to be rude right back to you, PERIOD!

  • KeptInStitchesKeptInStitches the Northern Plains
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    And calling those of us who aren't married "crazy with cats" isn't rude? Pot, meet kettle.
  • I NEVER said the people who arent married are crazy with cats. i said some/most of y'all are crazy with cats. And I NEVER that my post wasn't rude, I know it was rude. The post was for the people who go on other peoples post saying mean/hurtful/rude things. Your missing the point!

  • I'm not pretending that i didn't say anything rude, because I know I did. The post was not for EVERYBODY who comes to theknot. It was for the people who constantly come to other people's post (Not Just Mine) and say mean/hurtful/rude things. I see that MOST of you all are missing that point! But of course people are still going to take whatever they want from the post and flip it around! I NEVER said the people who arent married are crazy with cats i said most/some of them are (PROBABLY). There is a difference between constructive criticisim and just being nasty/rude as hell. Like i said before it's all fine and dandy when some of y'all come to my post and tell me how dumb it is to start planning a wedding before im engaged, or how dumb it is to plan for a wedding thats not until 2016, its okay for some of y'all to do that right? But when I make a post asking why your being rude to me and other people, and start to say rude things back people start to feel some type of way. You want to be rude to me, I'm going to be rude right back to you, PERIOD!

    You cray cray for pre planning. You guuuuyyyysssss this is going to be good dont forget to quote bc OP will probably DD.

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  • you have your opinion, and I have mine!
  • you have your opinion, and I have mine!

    Your RUDE opinion is that you think we're all rude so you're not going to get welcomed here with open arms.

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  • KeptInStitchesKeptInStitches the Northern Plains
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    Yep. You're totally going to change hearts and minds by being rude.
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  • like I said BEFORE i never said EVERYBODY was rude I said SOME of y'all are rude, there is a difference!
  • But its okay for other people to be rude to me WELL BEFORE I even made this post? Yea, okay! I was being rude to the people who were rude to me!

  • like I said BEFORE i never said EVERYBODY was rude I said SOME of y'all are rude, there is a difference!

    Go read the title of your post. It's called: "Why are most of ya'll so negative!!!!!" Most =/= some We don't encourage pre-planning, easy as that. You want people to validate this, go to Weddingbee.

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    But its okay for other people to be rude to me WELL BEFORE I even made this post? Yea, okay! I was being rude to the people who were rude to me!

    Are you a child? Someone being rude to you (which didn't even happen) is not a reason to throw a tantrum and be rude to everyone.

    You got advice. It may not have been what you wanted to hear but that doesn't mean it's rude. And throwing a fit isn't going to make people see it your way. If you thought some of the posts were rude why didn't you address it in your thread? Call out specific posters? Explain in a calm and polite manner why you thought it was rude? How does being rude to all the women on this board (whether or not you meant to do that, it's how it has been taken) solve any of your problems.


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  • you are right.

    Okay...

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    Well, I'm out. My cat and I will go snuggle in our lovely crazy-cat-lady world. BF can come along as long as he's nice. :D
  • edited August 2013

    @buddysmom80 Its cool if you dont encourage 'pre planning'. Just dont try to make other people feel stupid for wanting to! There is always a better way to say things! Dont call them dumb or stupid, thats rude as hell. Name calling or rude/nasty behavior over a simple pre planning post? thats just crazy!

  • @buddysmom80 that "You are right" wasn't for you!

  • @prettybrown27 ; Posters were not rude to you on your OP.  You were given very constructive advice.  Advice that you do not agree with.  This is an internet forum full of strangers.  The women here give honest advice and will not blow smoke.  Strangers are not guaranteed to have the same opinion as you. 

    You have since been very rude and acknowledged some of it.  That does not change that your name calling and assumptions are uncalled for.

    FWIW, you are young.  Life will change in the next three years.  What you want now may or may not be the same in 3 years.  Prices, popular colors, and available venues may change.   You can plan away all you want for an event 3 years from now, but by no means are the women here obligated to condone it.

    Why should you listen to me?  Because at 22 I thought I was brilliant and going to marry the man I was with.  At 24 I did, and it was the worst decision I could've made.  At 25 we divorced, and I began the process of learning who I actually am and what I really need in a relationship. Will this happen to you?  Maybe not, but you have time to figure out who you are and want.  If in three years from now you still want to marry this man, then plan it then.

    Please step back and calm down.  You can take my advice or leave it.  So far you don't seem very appreciative of advice.  These women are actually very nice if you would stop the name calling and try to get to know them.

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