Hi! I have 2 FSIL that i'm close with - they're both great! They're also both older. (10-12 years older than me and my fiancé) When we were picking our bridal party, I was asking my fiancé and my FMIL if I should ask his sisters to be in the WP - they both said no, they didn't think the sisters would be interested (because they're older, have already done the bridal party thing, whatever the reason). I did ask the one sister's daughters to be jr bmaids/flower girl. the other sister has no kids, but I was going to have her be involved in the wedding in another special way. well, I come to find out, a few months later, after picking out my bridal pary, both future SIL are upset they weren't asked to be in the bridal party, and felt that they should have been asked because they are my fiancé's sisters. I feel AWFUL and I don't know what to do at this point. I feel if I ask them to be a part of it, they'll just say no; but on the flip side, I already have a huge bridal party. I would of course have them in it because they are his sisters and I would have had them in the bridal party in the first place had I known they would have been upset because I really like them! but I just didn't think they would want to be! i'm just not sure how to fix this! any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!! Thanks!