For beginning, please see here: http://forums.theknot.com/discussion/992556/come-read-my-friend-fb-meltdown-story#latest
So, for those keeping count, he has thrown a tantrum and left the group and his VP position once b/c he's peeved about shenanigans downtown.
Comes back.
Leaves again b/c he can't let go of things but there is no official announcement about him no longer being VP.
Update begins:
I did a questionnaire for the members to get a handle on how the membership was feeling, since we had been suffering from an apathetic board. I create an FB group last night for the board members to upload it so they can all see it quickly. I text the president to ask if R is still VP. Receive, "Yah, he came back".
2 times leaving, 2 times coming back. And this is being tolerated.
So, I have to re-friend R on FB to put him into board member group (I should've just had president do it, but I can't rely on him to do anything in the first place). He accepts and then is all butt hurt b/c I had unfriended him in the first place. I tell him (over message), I'm not discussing this with him, perhaps when we are face-to-face I will be willing, but for now, this is just to get him into the board member group. He then proceeds to rant and rave at me over messaging for about 1/2 an hour about how I'm being mysterious, various scenarios of trying to guess why I unfriended him, accusing me of lecturing him and treating him like a child (something I don't disagree with actually, but hello behavior), unfriends me, then re-friends me with an apology and "talk to me in your own time" message.
Unstable, completely unstable.