Great way to prevent add ons. But that's the invite my fiance got today! I am pretty laid back, I don't even side eye cash bars that much. But I can't help feeling insulted by this. I had researched the hotels and stuff already, thank goodness I hadn't taken work off. I just assumed I would be invited. I've met the groom more than a few times. And this is a wedding my fiance would have to stay over two nights since its about 6 hours away, I'm really surprised I wasn't invited.