I have thought over and over again about what my vows will include.
My fiance and I are being married by an ordained friend, and we have decided that we want to write our own vows and read them in a back and forth pattern, ending with something that we say that is the same.
How long should vows be?? How do I even start pinpointing what I want to say?
This is such an open-ended question... But I'm struggling! Not with having enough to say -- just with finding a way to say it. I'm a good writer, and I am pretty witty. I just worry. And I know I'll cry through the whole thing.
Advice from anyone else who wrote their own vows? What did you do to jumpstart yourself and your SO?