So I just found out through a link to her blog on FB, that a friend is going through a divorce. She was one of my old youth leaders at Church when I was in HS, but through both of us changing churches, other than FB we don't have much contact. My heart is breaking for her, and I am a little disheartened as well. It seems like so many people are going through divorces or separations or marriage struggles, and it's silly really, but it makes me think "can we do it? can we really be the ones to beat the odds?" Yes I know all relationships are different, and I don't know what has caused the break down of my friends marriage, so I shouldn't compare me and my FI to these other people. And I know I shouldn't think this way, because faith in Christ is not a guarantee of anything but Salvation, but sometimes I think "these people are Christians, this shouldn't be happening to them". Does anyone else feel this way?