My Fiance and I did some research when we found out we can ask our guests to give us money for the honeymoon instead of buying us gifts. We decided to go this route since we already live together and are not "fine china" kind of people. Does anyone know exactly how to go about this? Do we ask people to do this for the bridal shower since if they give it for the wedding it will be a little too late? And if they give us money at the bridal shower, are they expected to also give a gift for the wedding? If anyone knows, we would greatly appreciate it!