Hey ladies!! I'm Catholic (FI is not) and we're getting married in a Catholic church and are beginning all this pre-cana stuff.
We're in DC; FI's roommate is graduating and his lease is up at the end of June. Since it is nearly impossible to live in DC on your own because it's soo expensive, we felt it was best to live together to save money. I currently live in a house with 3 girls (all grad students) and I've been getting frustrated with my living situation so moving in with FI is definitely the right thing to do financially and mentally! Plus, if I stay in my house, I would have to break my lease when we get married next April, or pay double rent until the lease is up in July (my landlord wants to house grad students; finding a grad student to take over my room in April is near-impossible). I told my roommates that I will be moving out this summer and we will soon begin our search for someone to take over my room.
We've met with my priest a few times, and he has different contact information down for each of us (because at this time we are living in different places). We have a few more meetings with him obviously before the wedding- should I tell him that we're going to move in together?? Or should I keep this hush-hush? I've heard rumors from some brides that some priests will refuse to marry anyone that is living together before marriage. I know it's a Catholic rule that every couple should wait til marriage to move in together, but we're practically living together now anyways (we sleep at eachother's place every night), and I know FI is a good roomie haha. My parents are okay with it because they know we will be saving a lot of money.
How many of you Catholic brides are living with your FIs? Am I freaking out over nothing? lol.