Ever since my fiancé brought me home to meet his parents, I have gotten along great with both of his parents. I have had many good time with my FMIL, who has a very strong personality (at times stronger than me). She has already told me I need to change my date (the 5th anniversary of her mother passing would be the day after the wedding), which I did to avoid a fight. Now I find out, through my fiancé, that she is mocking and making fun of my broach bouquet idea, a bouquet that I find very meaningful to me. While I don't plan on backing down on my bouquet, I do worry about what other plans/ideas she will try to attack. The advice I get from SYTTD is to stand strong, but how can I repel her without being a Bridezilla and without damaging any relationships?