I just wanted to thank everyone who commented on my previous post, "I need a reality check!" After reading all of the comments and acting like a two year old when I asked for the "tough love" approach. (even though that doesn't describe it because I don't know any of you!) I just wanted to say thank you again! Also in case any of you were interested, my BF and I sat down and we talked about what we want and why he doesn't feel like he is ready. It went really well and I am so happy that we are waiting!