I have three wonderful bridesmaids, but dress disagreements are making things difficult.
Two have a similar build, and the other (my MOH) has a different build, and I know things look different on everyone, so I don't care weather they're in the same dress - but I do want the same color, length and fabric. This is where the problem arises. We've looked extensively at dresses - multiple stores, online, multiple styles, etc. I chose the color and fabric, my MOH chose the length. Everyone was okay with that. We've only found 3 dresses that are possibilities based on these factors though (the color is really difficult to find). My MOH loves one of the dresses, another BM is okay with any of the 3 options and wants to match the other BM, but that BM isn't thrilled with any of the options.
We've all told her she looks great in the dresses, which she really does, and even other friends that have seen her in them think it looks great, but she doesn't think so. She wants to keep looking, but we've really exhausted our options. She found a dress she really likes in another fabric, but I really want the fabrics to match, and I don't want to change things now because I really like the options and so does the MOH and other BM.
Is it being unreasonable to ask her to chose of the 3 dresses we've found already? I want her to be happy and comfortable in what she wears, but I also want the color, fabric and length we've already decided on. She's not generally a difficult person, but she is picky about what she wears/how she looks. I feel bad making her wear something she's not super comfortable in, but I don't know what else to do.