Hi everyone -
I'm hoping to get some help/ideas on a tactful way to line up my bridesmaids at the church during our ceremony in May. My husband-to-be has very close friends that will not be able to make it to our wedding. As a result, he is going to have one best man but no groomsmen. I was originally only going to have one maid of honor, but after giving it some thought I'd really like to have my friends in the wedding as well - so there will be 4 bridesmaids plus the maid of honor.
Is there a way to make this look OK at the church? The last thing I want to do is line up 5 people on my side and only 1 person on his. Another thing to consider is the fact that both his parents passed away two years ago, and I don't want to do anything that makes him feel lonely, I guess. My thought was to have my bridesmaids walk down the aisle then file into the front pew and sit there during the ceremony, so just my maid of honor will stand up at the alter with me. His best man will be up there too so perhaps that would look less unbalanced?
Another idea is to not have my friends in the wedding at all (I haven't asked them yet) and stick with the original plan of one maid of honor and one best man. Ahh I don't know what to do! Any ideas or thoughts would help!