Well, I'll start by saying "this isn't my first rodeo". I've been married before (28-1/2 years), and so has my FI (25 years). The question is, how do I choose bridesmaids? We have 5 kids between us (4 girls, 1 boy), all are adults. We know we want our 3 grandkids in the wedding (1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer, 1 banner bearer). But then I'm stuck. He can't even decide on one person to stand up for him (would probably not have anyone if he had his 'druthers), and I'm just torn. I don't think I can ask the girls; my youngest is in the Navy and may be deployed overseas soon, which would mean she wouldn't be home for the wedding. I want one of my other daughters to sing, and my oldest is mommy to the two grandsons, so she'll have her hands really full. Then we get into family. My sister wasn't in my first wedding, but I don't know if it's what I want her role to be that day. I don't really have any super-close friends that would feel right being up there with me, but I want to figure this out soon and NOT make a lousy choice.
And then there's the question of colors! I wasn't this stressed last time. How will I get through it all? lol