So I received a Facebook invitation to a friend's baby shower...but it's her 2nd baby (and also it's a 'diaper shower' where all they wanted us to bring was diapers since she had another girl and they have tons of girl clothes). I was a little bit miffed and thought it was slightly rude to have a 2nd shower (don't people only have showers for the first baby?). I mean, if I got married again I wouldn't have another shower (no offence to people who do) because it would be like asking all the same people who got you gifts the first time around to get you another one. Also, my fiancé and I are not having children, so I will be buying her children gifts until they're who knows how old for birthdays and Christmas while they will not have to buy us anything else (besides a wedding gift, I think). And I don't want this to sound like I'm upset that I have to buy presents for her kids because I buy them birthday presents willingly, they don't ask us to, we're just always invited to the parties. I just feel like having a 2nd baby shower is a bit of overkill when they already have everything they need from the first baby.
Any thoughts?
Edited - spelling