Stage, Addie, TXK, Pele, CMGr...

Legu

and whoever else I've missed...

Where is everyone?

Admittedly I've been away again for a while, and every time I come back something weird's gone on.

So, where'd everyone go?

WinstonsGirl

Everyone headed over to Proboards (http://tktreehouse.proboards.com/) after Stage and Linger were banned without warning.  Happened about 1-2 months ago maybe.  It sucks a lot more around here now.  

ashleyep

Stage and Linger got banned. CMGr GBCK'ed and some of the other users were mysteriously locked out of their accounts that same day. Addie stuck around for a bit but I think she ultimately left.

They're at tktreehouse.proboards.com 

AlexisA01

Stage was banned. If you go the tech boards you will read about it.

harper0813

Weird, innit? TK has turned into a ghost town.

Legu

Stage got banned??!!

Damn... She had like, the most level head of anyone on here ever...

TK's gone nuts.

*heads to tech boards*

Legu

*returns from Tech board*

Now, just what in the holy old heck is going on around here?

I just stumbled on the secret mod thread... Like...

I'm speechless.

itzMS

No one is really sure.

The KGs have been incredibly ellusive and quiet.

Unfortunately, things are starting to get out of hand by the overwhelming amount of "Do whatever you want, honey! It's YOUR special day" posters.

CrazyCatLady3

ashleyep said:

Stage and Linger got banned. CMGr GBCK'ed and some of the other users were mysteriously locked out of their accounts that same day. Addie stuck around for a bit but I think she ultimately left.

They're at tktreehouse.proboards.com 

GBCK = ?

itzMS

CrazyCatLady3 said:

ashleyep said:

Stage and Linger got banned. CMGr GBCK'ed and some of the other users were mysteriously locked out of their accounts that same day. Addie stuck around for a bit but I think she ultimately left.

They're at tktreehouse.proboards.com 

GBCK = ?

Good Bye Cruel Knot

Usually when someone makes a dramatic exit or an exit in response to drama.

KeptInStitches

GBCK = goodbye cruel knot

CrazyCatLady3

Oh, was that in response to that thread about PPDs and her comment re: the funeral for the miscarried child?

Liatris2010

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Oh, was that in response to that thread about PPDs and her comment re: the funeral for the miscarried child?

No she apologized for that and asked to be deleted after the Stage and Linger were banned.

CrazyCatLady3

Liatris2010 said:

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Oh, was that in response to that thread about PPDs and her comment re: the funeral for the miscarried child?

No she apologized for that and asked to be deleted after the Stage and Linger were banned.

Too bad.  She also gave some good advice from time to time.

ashleyep

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Liatris2010 said:

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Oh, was that in response to that thread about PPDs and her comment re: the funeral for the miscarried child?

No she apologized for that and asked to be deleted after the Stage and Linger were banned.

Too bad.  She also gave some good advice from time to time.

She was pretty much the go to person for wording on invitations and how to address them.

Legu

So...

When I was last on here, TK =/= Weddingbee...

Now... ??


Getting rid of mods was stupid.
Trying to implement secret mods, does not fix it.
Getting rid of the people actually trying to ensure you didn't lose friends over a PPD was stupid.

I enjoy browsing these boards, I've learned a lot, and always thought it was the best wedding info site there was.
In my personal opinion, the puppies and rainbows approach doesn't work.

misssunshine17

Legu said:

So... When I was last on here, TK = Weddingbee... Now... ?? Getting rid of mods was stupid. Trying to implement secret mods, does not fix it. Getting rid of the people actually trying to ensure you didn't lose friends over a PPD was stupid. I enjoy browsing these boards, I've learned a lot, and always thought it was the best wedding info site there was. In my personal opinion, the puppies and rainbows approach doesn't work.

FTFY. 

QueerFemme

@legu -  come to the proboards. 

JellyBean52513

ashleyep said:

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Liatris2010 said:

CrazyCatLady3 said:

Oh, was that in response to that thread about PPDs and her comment re: the funeral for the miscarried child?

No she apologized for that and asked to be deleted after the Stage and Linger were banned.

Too bad.  She also gave some good advice from time to time.

She was pretty much the go to person for wording on invitations and how to address them.

Ughhhhhh now how am I supposed to know how to word my invites so that my guests know to wear formal attire to my wedding and that the cocktail hour will take place from 4-7???

Kidding, I'm kidding.

MuppetOverlord

Addie's still here sometimes, she's just busy IRL.

TXK is gone. Pele is in retirement.

AddieCake

Awwww!  I feel loved!

After the bullshit bannings, I debated whether to stay or go at all, so I started limiting my time here. Then I got a teaching job, so I'm crazy fucking busy now. I can't be online at work at all b/c the entire campus is like a dead zone for mobile internet, and having taken a year off from teaching, it is really hard getting back into the swing of things, especially in a new place, so when I get home, I'm pretty wiped out and not in the mood for being online much. 

Teddy917

Legu said:

So...

When I was last on here, TK =/= Weddingbee...

Now... ??


Getting rid of mods was stupid.
Trying to implement secret mods, does not fix it.
Getting rid of the people actually trying to ensure you didn't lose friends over a PPD was stupid.

I enjoy browsing these boards, I've learned a lot, and always thought it was the best wedding info site there was.
In my personal opinion, the puppies and rainbows approach doesn't work.

Exactly. If I wanted puppies and rainbows, I would go outside in the rain with a puppy.

itzMS

Teddy917 said:

So... When I was last on here, TK =/= Weddingbee... Now... ?? Getting rid of mods was stupid. Trying to implement secret mods, does not fix it. Getting rid of the people actually trying to ensure you didn't lose friends over a PPD was stupid. I enjoy browsing these boards, I've learned a lot, and always thought it was the best wedding info site there was. In my personal opinion, the puppies and rainbows approach doesn't work.

Exactly. If I wanted puppies and rainbows, I would go outside in the rain with a puppy.

Wet dog smells pretty bad...

:-)

Teddy917

itzMS said:

Teddy917 said:

Legu said:

So...

When I was last on here, TK =/= Weddingbee...

Now... ??


Getting rid of mods was stupid.
Trying to implement secret mods, does not fix it.
Getting rid of the people actually trying to ensure you didn't lose friends over a PPD was stupid.

I enjoy browsing these boards, I've learned a lot, and always thought it was the best wedding info site there was.
In my personal opinion, the puppies and rainbows approach doesn't work.

Exactly. If I wanted puppies and rainbows, I would go outside in the rain with a puppy.

Wet dog smells pretty bad...

:-)

I enjoy the smell of wet dog. And even if you don't like the smell is better than the stink of WeddingBee that has tainted the Knot

Legu

So, basically, it's all gone fruit-loopy.
This makes me sad.

I learned so much from here, from the regs that weren't afraid of telling it straight (and for all their rights or wrongs, I'm going back to Lucy/Edie days).

Now you've got to spend so long figuring out how to word advice so as not to break the speshul snowflakes feelers... Is it really worth the time?

So many names are missing from current threads, it's sad. Bear (both goodluck and bchs), Kmmssg, Banana, Hoboken, Musu, Muni...
Surely KGs don't really want to turn the place into WBee???

WinstonsGirl

Legu said:

So, basically, it's all gone fruit-loopy. This makes me sad. I learned so much from here, from the regs that weren't afraid of telling it straight (and for all their rights or wrongs, I'm going back to Lucy/Edie days). Now you've got to spend so long figuring out how to word advice so as not to break the speshul snowflakes feelers... Is it really worth the time? So many names are missing from current threads, it's sad. Bear (both goodluck and bchs), Kmmssg, Banana, Hoboken, Musu, Muni... Surely KGs don't really want to turn the place into WBee???

WB means Brides are happy to stay and will spend more cash cos their bad ideas are being validated.  You've been around long enough to know that.  I'm with you that I miss lots of the reg too, both the more recent ones and the older ones too.  Life is really being sucked dry out of these boards that it's getting so frustrating to try and stay around

Legu

WinstonsGirl said:

Legu said:

So, basically, it's all gone fruit-loopy.
This makes me sad.

I learned so much from here, from the regs that weren't afraid of telling it straight (and for all their rights or wrongs, I'm going back to Lucy/Edie days).

Now you've got to spend so long figuring out how to word advice so as not to break the speshul snowflakes feelers... Is it really worth the time?

So many names are missing from current threads, it's sad. Bear (both goodluck and bchs), Kmmssg, Banana, Hoboken, Musu, Muni...
Surely KGs don't really want to turn the place into WBee???

WB means Brides are happy to stay and will spend more cash cos their bad ideas are being validated.  You've been around long enough to know that.  I'm with you that I miss lots of the reg too, both the more recent ones and the older ones too.  Life is really being sucked dry out of these boards that it's getting so frustrating to try and stay around


...
I never even have it a thought.

What a shame we all bow out to the pennies in the end.

I'll stick around.
There's a chance I may be re-starting wedding planning in the next few weeks, and I think I've learned enough now for if I get a question I'm stuck with, I'll be able to pick the good answers from the bad, and I do genuinely like it around here...
Just seems, different...

artbyallie

Come join us at the treehouse and ask your questions there!

ShesSoCold

Legu said:

So, basically, it's all gone fruit-loopy. This makes me sad. I learned so much from here, from the regs that weren't afraid of telling it straight (and for all their rights or wrongs, I'm going back to Lucy/Edie days). Now you've got to spend so long figuring out how to word advice so as not to break the speshul snowflakes feelers... Is it really worth the time? So many names are missing from current threads, it's sad. Bear (both goodluck and bchs), Kmmssg, Banana, Hoboken, Musu, Muni... Surely KGs don't really want to turn the place into WBee???

This makes me warm and fuzzy inside! I'm beardownbchs but (obviously) changed my name. I'm here to fight the good fight!

Legu

ShesSoCold said:

Legu said:

So, basically, it's all gone fruit-loopy.
This makes me sad.

I learned so much from here, from the regs that weren't afraid of telling it straight (and for all their rights or wrongs, I'm going back to Lucy/Edie days).

Now you've got to spend so long figuring out how to word advice so as not to break the speshul snowflakes feelers... Is it really worth the time?

So many names are missing from current threads, it's sad. Bear (both goodluck and bchs), Kmmssg, Banana, Hoboken, Musu, Muni...
Surely KGs don't really want to turn the place into WBee???

This makes me warm and fuzzy inside! I'm beardownbchs but (obviously) changed my name. I'm here to fight the good fight!

Lol... Fuzzy bear...

I'm glad to see a coupla people are still around, and that some unfamiliar names at least have the common sense to continue the attempt to quash awful plans.
I'm definitely going to check out this treehouse doodah once I've got a bit of time spare.

Thanks ladies

Legu

Urge, messed up the quote thing and apparently can't edit on my phone.