I am originally from Mississippi, but then moved to Virginia a few years ago. I met my fiancé there, and his entire family lives there. We are currently planning to have the wedding there for the mountainous view, but all of my family still lives in Mississippi. It is a constant struggle between both sides of the family because neither sides want to travel. I am from the south and my family is huge, even the distant cousins attend. How do I make both of them happy, and how do I ask them to travel so far to come to the wedding? How do I get an accurate guest count on top of all of that?