I have a question to pose. Has anyone contemplated or planned one marriage in 2 ceremonies? We are a couple who leads a bit of a double life. Our family life is pretty clean and straight forward, however most of our friends are in the Gothic / Industrial club scene which we love and is super important to us. We are thinking we will need to have a 2 different ceremonies to accommodate both groups of people. Any suggestions on how to accomplish this with going broke!!