My wedding is in 4 days and after double confirming my cousin & her bf from Wisconsin last week, I get a text message from her saying "I'm so sorry but my boyfriend had something come up and im not going to be able to make it to the wedding. i feel bad bc its short notice. there's no way i can make it." I feel like not even acknowledging her text message but im so mad I want to respond. My parents had separated and paid for hotel accomodations for her and her bf also. What should I say to her?