I was suposed to get married at the buttermilk falls in upstate ny but after this past weekend my fiance thinks its too far for everyone to travel. its only about 2 hrs away. im devistated cause i fell in love with the place and it was perfect and they were willing to suite my very low budget. so i have been searching for 2 days straight on all east end vineyards. they all want between $6000 and $12000 just for a site fee. any suggestions anywere else?