One of my bridesmaids already had one tattoo in an easily covered area (and it will be covered by the dresses) She had always talked about not wanting to get another anytime soon. Well low and behold she surprised everyone by getting an extremely visible one on her neck. I'm not sure how to proceed. I do not want visible tattoos in the wedding party, everyone was made well aware of this ahead of time. Is it rude of me to tell her she'll need to wear her hairstyled or makeup to cover it up for wedding? I think more than anything I'm hurt that she would do something like this 3 months before the wedding knowing I didn't want any tattoos showing.