Both me and my fiancee have made our communion and confirmations, but I am unsure if i want to have a Catholic wedding I prefer to have our ceremony at the same site as are reception, but found out priests don't go to off site events. I am okay with not having a priest but someone told me if we don't get married in a chruch, our children won't be able to be baptisized..is that true? I haven't been to church in forever...probably since my confirmation! And we both live together...i am assuming that is "frowned" upon . What do we need to know about getting married in a church??