My fiancé and I are both having our bachelor/bachelorette parties this week but I am completely uncomfortable with his party plans. To make a long story short the party is supposed to be at a strip club where a girl that absolutely hates me works. I asked all the groomsmen to go to any club strip club or not but that one. The sticky situation is that the girl is the gf of one of the groomsmen (which to me makes it even worse...why would you want your friends to see your girl like that?). I just feel completely disrespected and am not sure what to do. My fiancé knows how I feel and has repeatedly told them he does not want to goto that particular club but it's still being planned there. He's saying he won't go which is not what I want either. Gah why does it have to be so complicated? Any thoughts or suggestions?