I'm getting married in October 2015! Everyone has their own opinion...your doing too much already...your not doing enough. What is enough?! I currently have my venue book ( Grand Merdian, Appleton), the church ( Sacred Heart, Sherwood, the photographer ( Brenda Hostettler ), the DJ ( Showtime Entertainment, River Falls ) , and flowers for my centerpieces ( I decided to do fake for the centerpieces and real for our bouquets and church ) I have the itch bad to go dressing shopping, I want to do the fun stuff involved with weddings!!!! Everyone keeps asking why don't you move up your date...we have our reasons ( money ) to wait 2 years. How are you lovely ladies coping with a 2 year engagement?