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My sister really honked meoff this weekend

I was taking the kids to my parents' house Sunday to Monday to visit and kind of because DH was OOT.  I'd been planning this before he was out though.  We haven't slept over since Christmas.  It happened that niece was also playing soccer in the same town so I took my kids to the game too. At the game I overhear her talking to another soccer mom about how I'm all nervous to be home alone with my kids for a week, but "I've got 3 kids too and it's no big deal.  I have no sympathy at all." blah blah blah something about needing my parents to help.  She went on for quite some time.  Finally I just said that I could hear her and walked away.

Yes, I'm nervous.  Yes, I think it's going to suck.  I haven't really talked to her about it though.  Yes, she has 3 kids, but the youngest is 8.  A week alone with them would be nbd.  Add the fact that our dad watches her kids one night every other week and my parents drive her kids to soccer games all over creation 3 weekends out of 4- to the point that they even spent a weekend in a hotel for a big soccer tournament.  I've been trying to plan this overnight since MAY.  It's taken this long because my parents have been helping her with her kids. 

The fact that she was essentially bitching about me while I was standing right there really just put the icing on the cake.

Re: My sister really honked meoff this weekend

  • Wow.  Did she apologize or say anything else to you after you told her you could hear her?
  • Ugh.  Sorry.

    So she really doesn't see how much your parents help her, does she?  It seems like a little reflection on her part would do her some good.

  • What a twatface!  And I mean that sincerely.

    Talk about lack of tact.  I mean, I'm a freaking social nightmare, but I at least use diversionary tactics.
  • She didn't say anything when I told her I heard.  It's strange because when she talks to me she'll comment on how lucky she is to have all the help from my parents, but she was acting like she gets no help to this woman.  I kind of wonder if there was something going on with the other soccer mom and my sister, but I'll probably never know because we'll just ignore that it happened.

    The only thing sis has said to me is that it's nice my ILs are involved because her MIL is an assface. This is true. 

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