I found out today, 4 days away from our wedding day, that FI never told his groomsmen what color vests/ties they are supposed to be wearing. We decided MONTHS ago that they would wear gray slacks, and a vest and tie in their choice of our three colors. They didn't even have to be an exact shade or style. They could get them wherever they wanted. We didn't want them to be all matchy matchy. We made it as easy for them as we could. Apparently FI decided that it didn't matter, and when they all started calling him he just told them to wear whatever they've got. So now everyone else is going to be color coordinated except for the groomsmen, who will all be wearing god knows what. I wanted to strangle him. Then he didn't understand why I was upset.. "They're still going to look nice".. good lord, not the point. We were going for a whole unified look. Hopefully none of them will show up in something that completely clashes with our colors. It's not the end of the world, but it is frustrating. Like why did I bother color coordinating EVERYTHING else, if it's just going to be a free for all.
Ugh..not going to ruin my wedding. But damn.