Update...

loves2shop4shoes

Well, I have news. I lost my job today. My boss called me into his office at the end of the day and told me that he really thought the world of me. That I had done a wonderful job. Had done everything he had asked of me and more. That I had learned quickly and had had a lot dropped on my plate. But that he didn't feel like it was the right fit. So today was my last day.

And just like that, I have no job again.

To say I'm devastated is an understatement. I've been breathing into a bag a lot. I can't even look DH in the eye.

I can't believe this.

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I am so, so very sorry to read this.

Shiroyasha

I'm so sorry, Shoes! 

bethsmiles

I'm so sorry Shoes. It sucks when you do everything right and it still doesn't work out. You'll find something else.

bride2b71614

Shoes, I am so sorry this happened! Its a serious pet peeve of mine when bosses try to "soften the blow" by stating all of a person's positive work ethic qualities, then say "this job isn't a fit/sorry we have to let you go etc." From your OP, it seems like the conversation between you and your boss came out of left field.  From some of your other posts (sorry for creeping on your profile for this), your H seems like a really great guy, and will support you through anything. Not to mention you have the support from the NEY community.  

Edited: "In NY state its against the law for an employer to "fire" an employee after completing a full days work (especially if they knew that the employee was going to be fired prior to them coming in). I don't know where you live/where you are, but the same law could apply." This is misinformation I misread the laws @allusive007 thank you for clarifying that.

CLoGreenEyes

I'm so sorry, Shoes Major hugs and vibes for better feelings and opportunities for you.

Peaseblossom55

Sorry again, sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts for a new better job soon!!

labro

I'm so sorry! I hope you're feeling a little better this morning (not breathing into a bag). Losing a job is hard. I'm wishing you all the best in finding a new and better job with an amazing boss! Good luck!

KeptInStitches

I'm so sorry, Shoes.

Blackbird230

I'm so sorry, shoes That sucks. *hugs* hang in there!

KateJ16

I'm so so sorry   That totally stinks.

If it helps - my company actually just opened up a couple positions in the past week, and since you had sent your resume over to me I just forwarded it on to HR, because I think you would fit at least one of the positions (possibly two).  If you get a call from an Angela, that is from my company!

Hummingbird125

Shoes - I don't know you but I am so sorry. Here is my advice: Take a few days to feel sorry for yourself, watch bad TV, eat all of the foods, do whatever you want to do when you're seriously bummed out. Next, do things that will put you in a better mental state. GET OUTSIDE. Exercise. Cook delicious foods. Whatever. Then, make a plan - figure out what you most want out of a job or career and think about how you will get there. 

Every since college I've been employed in a stable, well-paying job. After 4 years at one company I left it for what I thought was a great opportunity. The new job sucked the life out of me, it was the worst experience of my life and I truly had no choice but to quit. Although it was my choice to do so, I think I went through many of the same things that people do when losing a job. I was shocked, devastated, felt unstable, and was of course so worried about finances. You need to figure out what to do to keep you financially stable - whether that means looking for a part time job right away (I found a part-time nanny position on care.com really easily) or just seriously cutting back on any spending and living off savings. Just knowing how you will pay your bills will make you feel a lot more comfortable with the current state of things. 

Do your best to turn this bad thing into a good thing. We're all here for you!

phira

Ugh, I'm so sorry If there's anything we can do (from letting you vent to proofreading resumes/cover letters), let us know!!!

suzie211

@loves2shop4shoes So sorry Shoes! That really sucks. Let me know if you need a drink and want company while drowning your sorrows. I'm happy to help.

It sucks balls, but I'm sure this is just opening the doors for the more amazing job you were meant to have.

katieg520

OMG I am so sorry!!!! I know how hard it must be and I will be praying for you that you'll find something new quickly.

minskat30

@loves2shop4shoes - I know we already chatted about this but I'm sending you all the positive vibes I can.  You are young, very smart, hard working and resourceful (not to mention a great person).  Something better WILL come out of this situation.

maybebabytx

@loves2shop4shoes I don't know you and I'm usually a lurker here, but I'm so sorry to hear that! At least you know that you are a good at what you do, by what he told you! And as some PP have said, this is obviously an open door to something more perfect for you! Prayers and positive vibes comin atcha! Sounds like you will still get an excellent reference out of him!

skepticals

Im so sorry, thats awful.

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bride2b71614 said:

I'm so sorry shoes! That blows. I can't believe your boss made you work a full day, then fired you. In NY state its against the law for an employer to "fire" an employee after completing a full days work (especially if they knew that the employee was going to be fired prior to them coming in). I don't know where you live/where you are, but the same law could apply. Again I am so so so sorry, I hope things will get better soon. 

This makes absolutely no sense to me. I'm really surprised this would be written into your state's laws. The company is still paying you your wage for a full day's work - it's not like you're being slighted in any way. I could understand not wanting to work a full day after you've been fired that morning...but why would it bother anyone to be fired at the end of the day as opposed to the beginning? You really expect the employer to wait until the next day, make you come all the way into the office and then fire you? I think being let go would suck no matter the time of day.

 

Shoes - I'm so sorry to hear this. Obviously your employer thought highly of you. Sometimes you'll just never know a good reason and honestly I think that sucks even more than if they were just straight with you and said "were letting you go because _(insert justifiable reason here)_ ". You know? Anyway, I know this whole job thing has been a struggle for you for some time now. I really liked Hummingbird's advice. Take a couple days, get yourself healthy and mentally "fit" and then start attacking the search again. I always try to tell myself this wasn't meant to be if it didn't work out - what is a good fit for me will reveal itself at the right time. Keep your chin up girl! You're WAY to strong to let this crush you!!!

bride2b71614

@allusive007, I misread the information, and it was a poor interpretation on my part. I apologize for that. Thank you for the correction, and I edited my reply for clarity.