My FI and I set our date at our dream venue. We had been wanting to book this venue since before we got engaged, we then found out after our engangement that the venue was quite pricey. My parents decided to go look at it and fell in love with it, and put a deposite down for Oct 2015 since they already had 2 saturdays booked for Oct 2015. When my FI told FMIL she went nuts. She is upset because she was not there. She has a very busy schedule on top of everything, so we couldn't exactly wait until is was good for her to go since it would have been weeks.She has also been making us think she has no interest in wedding planning. We asked her for her guest list a month ago, we still haven't gotten it. We took her to a different venue, she was on her phone the whole time and kept making rude comments comments. Why would we want to bring her when she was acting this way? Not to mention, she only points out the negative in things, and I don't want her to ruin my dream wedding which I feel like she has been doing. She's been pushing us to get married in a Church, but neither of us want that. Now she is pushing a priest to come on site if we don't do the church. She also feels that if she isn't going to appointments then my parents should not be (my parents are paying for the entire wedding).This is only the beginning of the planning, & I do not know what to do about her. Any advice?!