Not only is this the second marriage for both us but we are both planning to retire in the next 3-5 years. We are having a destination wedding and I really don't expect people who are attending to give gifts in addition to paying for their travel and hotel rooms. We have a very complete household and don't need very much. My future sister-in-law has been very adamant that we need to register for gifts. I mentioned it to a couple of other friends and they think we should register with at least one store. What do you think? Does anyone have ideas on registration alternatives?