I've been lurking for a while and just got engaged this weekend. I have learned SO much from you all, so thanks!
One thing I am not quite clear on: I know that everyone who gets a Save the Date gets an invite, and everyone invited to a pre-wedding party should also be invited to the wedding, but I have seen engagement parties treated two different ways. Do people invited to an engagement party have to be invited to the wedding? We haven't determined a guest list for the wedding itself, and that planning may be a ways down the road. So, what says etiquette in regards to engagement party invites?